Need more feedback family Long Question but interesting?
I strained relationship mother sister father. father havent spoken 13 ys remembering abuse. confronted at denied ignored te years. Plus tried contact facebook written back. Question Isnt acting guilty. childhood mother constantly told sister older. mother teen suck. wt antidepressant medication manipulation control. hand upset wh Shake bottle me. wouldnt treated than. sister ud bonfires friends we attending cd sd tt couldnt. sister contantly competive complex we tn wd try up. Senior highschool wasnt allowed all…I phone sister privelages or it. college ce home breaks block door letting leave house. pushed tn ts saying hit her. wn ignored crazy rules threw stuff lawn. Ironic 4.0 school. ce home college depressed cried everyday awhile. ft robbed angry me. wn told mother sister treating tk medicine tone telling crazy. college wd access student loans funds kept saying that. college ge Wn 22 home college wt therapy twice. behaved tt immature..and school. didnt feel immature..I depressed messed treatment. hospital severe depression sister called friends laughing saying mental hospital he trying talk at issues tries change subject hangs phone bring ag at past. he bn 26. instance jaw surgury jaw wired shut as favorite meal was, me ate ft me. manipulation bring something, denies it, doesnt remember tt nr happened. shes "its past kick…never confronts issues. past treated le ts we life. ao family friends at me..they spoiled brat tt jt forgive forget past. forget affected life, sl treat now. lt conversation wh told ft hung me. totally denies tt er pretents amnesia. . sister hand ud break stuff purpose growing up, rude time didnt tell sister. ud ignore halls school, stand bus stops. Wn home college treated garbage. acted le piece dirt acted gd talk me. told mother tt sick bg treated kepts saying bury hatchet mover on. finally apologized 28 ys age 27 time. treated nr sister. Tn snotty condescending told tt sick kissing my***. ao sick people doing. mother as se sticks like, "she wd "and nd sister baby now, me wh her. sister accept apology tt doesnt ae negative life..not one. he tried counseling le ty don’t damn at me. mom care..she calls Im doing send nice gifts talk ag doesnt hear hangs up. developed major depression blame severely ty he damaged me.
The Question is..Should cut life?
Another Question..Should invite wedding? at inviting dad wedding.
I dont do…They blame past wn past ty treated as treated me.
Please dont suggest counseling he tried it, tried family wh re
October 28th, 2009 at 6:05 pm
You seem very forgiving towards your family, even though you have been treated poorly, you still want them in your life.
You have major unresolved issues, and these issues will and are preventing you from moving forward until they can be resolved.
Your asking for acceptance and for your family to be truthful and responsible for their actions towards you….by admitting their injustice.
You may never get what you need to hear from them. With them in your life it will always be turmoil and dysfunctional….it may be necessary for you to move forward for a new beginning in your life with out them.
Put you and your new family first……and let go!